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February 17, 2007
We see our lives flash before our eyes

Picture this:

It's a sunny Saturday, and a young guy in his twenties decides to take his new Nissan 280Z out for a spin. Rex Lake Road is nice, because it has some curves and gentle, rolling hills, the perfect road to find out what a sports car can do.

And there's a group of a dozen or so cyclists who have climbed up a hill on a back road and then descended to where the road dead ends and meets Rex Lake. They stop at the intersection to regroup.

The convergence of these two scenes was not a good one.

Nissan dude catches the edge of the road with his front right tire, loses control of the car, and is skidding along the embankment at a very high rate of speed.

It's like time stopped right there. Those two seconds felt like two minutes. My first thought was, "That car is too far away to endanger us". And then my second thought was, "That car is very close to us now, and it's about to flip over and kill all of us." That's when I threw myself, still attached to my bike, off the road into an embankment, away from the impending disaster. I squeezed my eyes closed, cowering, waiting for the event to continue unfolding. And by the grace of God, the car stopped right before it reached where we were standing.

The Nissan dude was ok; he got out of the car immediately, then took his verbal beating from a bunch of angry cyclists. The police were called; the dude's father then shows up driving a Lexus that was also brand new. We collected ourselves. We collected the bikes that were strewn about in our desperate attempts to save ourselves from a sports car hurtling through the air. Then we rode off and finished our ride, after everyone had their wits again.

Everyone deals with near-brushes with death in different ways. I know that as a cyclist I accept a high degree of risk when riding on the roads. But one thing I haven't considered until today is that some drivers (particularly those who are reckless) do not always have control of their vehicles. I don't think the emotional gravity of this incident hit me until I was driving home after my ride was completed. For some unknown reason, I am numb to the possibility of death. I'd like to say that would be because I'm not afraid of it and that if I died today, that my life would have been full and complete; that I was right with God. What upset me, when I was finally alone and could process what happened, is that some of my friends may have been hurt or killed. I don't know how I would be able to deal with the emotional trauma of losing them and seeing it happen in real time.

I've replayed the scene a hundred times in my head this afternoon. I can't fathom the odds of something like this happening. I'm not angry at the driver; he didn't see us when he lost control of the car. I'm not angry, period. Instead I feel thankful that God spared all of us.

I'm happy to be alive today.


Posted by megabeth at February 17, 2007 03:12 PM
 
Comments

Very well written Beth! That was by far the scariest thing that has ever happened to me. I agree that it didn't hit me until I was driving home. I am so thankful that nobody was hurt physically and we were all able to ride home. I think the driver learned a valuable lesson without having any damage other than his vehicle. I to can't imagine what I would have done if someone would have been struck.

Have a great weekend!

Posted by: Ian at February 17, 2007 04:30 PM

That was one intense post. As I was reading it I kept hoping that I would not read that you, or anyone else, was hit by that car. Anyway, I'm glad you (and your bike) are unharmed.

Posted by: Cagey at February 17, 2007 05:10 PM

First, glad you are okay, and everyone else also.

I kind of doubt the guy learned anything. He probably will have a replacement car by Monday, bought by his parents. And of course, it could not be his less than skillful driving or excess speed that caused that to happen to him - must have been some mechanical defect by the car company, or even a problem with the road - wait to see the lawsuit.

Although only short term satisfaction, maybe everyone could invest in Tasers so the verbal tongue lashing for being an idiot could include multiple tazings. Just a thought.

Last, yes it would be pretty nasty to see friends seriously hurt or die. A good reason to have some first aid training and to be carrying a basic kit.

Don't dwell on it, or it will make you crazy.

Posted by: Outlaw3 at February 17, 2007 07:40 PM

That was an intense and horrifying read. I'm glad you're okay.

Posted by: chris robinson at February 18, 2007 10:08 AM

We had a paramedic and an MD in the group. It's always good to carry at least one of those around with you.

Posted by: megabeth at February 18, 2007 05:52 PM

Where would you carry them, anyway? I don't remember bike shorts having pockets...

I'm quite glad you're safe. Dallas streets weren't very bike-friendly, either' when I was younger. I got clipped more than once.

Sorry I haven't written. Been a little weird around here.

Too bad you can't buy car repellant...

CS

Posted by: Captain Sunshine at February 18, 2007 06:56 PM

I suspected you had at least 1 MD and/or an EMT. They are always the first ones to get hurt when you need them most. That's why I would suggest they could teach everyone enough first aid for typical injuries the cycle group might see -- and remind them that when they look up and see one of the others bending over them looking concerned, that is NOT the time to start giving instructions on stopping bleeding, clearing an airway or creative use of duct tape and an air pump to immobilize a broken bone!

Posted by: Outlaw3 at February 18, 2007 09:18 PM

Yikes! Very glad that you're ok and still posting, kiddo! Even from many miles away, the opposite news would definitely have sucked to hear.


Posted by: Brendan at February 19, 2007 06:05 PM